THE SKY IS FALLING...IN THREE YEARS.

I just got an E-Mail from Chicken Little. In it, he said the boy who cried, "WOLF!" "twittered" him and apparently, the sky is falling again...UGH!

In an ensuing phone call C. L. said, "Yes, its later than you think, the end is near...its time to repent! The cataclysm is officially upon us."
REPENT TO WHO? CHICKEN LITTLE CALLS HIMSELF, "HALF AGNOSTIC, HALF ATHEIST AND HALF CYNIC."

"So that means," I countered, "its time to; re-stock the bomb shelter with water, can goods and Twinkies, arm to the teeth, vulcanize your ark and invest in a second set of solar panels."

Gulp! I couldn't believe the knucklehead said, "Yes! And and before the flood waters rise, you should start sizing up the folks you want on your boat...because the re-birth of humanity might rest in your hands."

ECONOMICS WILL BE THE LEAST OF OUR WORRIES !

"Money," he said, "will be useless. Raw precious metals, gasoline and batteries will become the coin of the realm..." I cut him off, "Yeah, yeah I saw that episode of the 'TWILIGHT ZONE' that was the one with Wally Cox and Buddy Ebsen." "Your not taking me seriously..." I said, "No I am not."

Chicken Little informed me of the impending apocalypse. He was kind enough to tell me that the annihilation of the world as we know it is coming. AND! it would occur...2012. I said, "2012? How can you be so sure?" He was dazzling my mind with numerous profound negative examples of the number 12 when he explained, "The bloodiest battle of the War of 1812 happened in 1813." When my jaw dropped he continued, "And you don't need me to remind you that the Titanic sunk in 1912." "That's it?" I said, "You're basing Armageddon on that?" "No!" he stated, "there's more." "Wait," I said, "don't you see what's happening right now with the swine flu 'epidemic?' A gazillion people die from regular flu every year and it's just tough toe-nails...but two die from swine flu and its time to run for your lives. Don't you understand it only takes one media moron to get the ball rolling and its Y2K and the killer bees again." He whispered, "The Mayan calendar is the key." I thought my head was going to explode from his spewed rantings. Then he ended this tirade with, "The Mayan calendar ends in 2012."

WITH COUNTLESS LUNATIC FRINGE GROUPS OUT THERE, THE CLAIM OF EARTH'S DEVASTATION COMES A FEW TIMES EACH DECADE !

I try to remain supportive of my friends but I couldn't help but laugh. He didn't appreciate my attitude and added, "Don't be fooled. There will be few survivors this time around...and you'll want to be prepared...it was predicted by Nostradamus." "I hate to burst your bubble," I said, "but the percentage of accurate Nostril-damus predictions are especially low." He said, "His name is pronounced Nostradamus." I said, "No. He was actually Dutch and its pronounced Nostril-damus. Back in the 1500's, in one of the few times in history when it was cool to be French, Nostril-damus passed himself off as a Parisian. Really check it out. They all thought he was a weirdo with all his far fetched quatrains and started busting on him because the sides of his nose were especially fleshy. Back then, the French didn't have a single word for nostril. So they would describe that body part as...the sides of your nose. But because he was such a wacko, his critics used it as an insult and eventually named it after him. After he died and became famous, the word nostril was considered a tribute."

Chicken Little tried to change the subject. I interrupted, "The end of the world is a great money maker. People come up with clever gimmicks, write books or sell survival equipment to get rich quick. Others just like the spotlight on them and hope to become famous. The true profiteers recognize this weakness in our society and prey on irrational fear. If this fear is allowed to fester, hysteria takes over and the guy who got in on the 'ground floor' selling phosphorescent-colored, radio-activity de-naturizers...laughs all the way to the bank.

"No!" Chicken Little asserted, "I read the charts and Saturn will be in perfect alignment with Uranus during the vernal equinox in 2012." I said, "Have you checked 2012's bio-rhythms, it's numerology, had a tarot card reading, experienced a remote viewing or checked your theory against the time travel continuum?" Chicken Little said, "Hey, I may not be able to explain it, but when you're swallowed up by the blight, don't come cryin' to me." I said, "This virtual end to mankind...will it be sudden or gradual?" He said, "Gradual...I told you, its gonna be a flood." "How big is the boat you're building?" "My friend has a boat...I'm in charge stockpiling batteries.." "Oh. Have you started a bucket-list?" "Yeah, I want to have sex in every state between now and then." I said, "Really?" He said, "I have a head start, I already took care of Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware and Florida. And on my vacation next month, I'm driving to Topeka, to hook-up with this fireplug I met on-line." When I smirked he added, "I also want to learn conversational Latin and get on the 'Twenty-Thousand Dollar Pyramid!'"
I wonder if he realizes he has a better shot at learning Latin?

THE MAYAN CALENDAR, ETCHED IN STONE ENDS IN 2012.

Chicken Little is investing too much of his faith in this. Couldn't it be just possible that the Mayans took the calendar as far into the future as they could. Isn't it possible that it coincidentally ends three years from now. After all its a great gimmick and sells books, creates TV shows etc. Now, I know its a heavy object but have the end-of-worlders lifted one of these babies up and checked the reverse side? Maybe we have another twelve hundred years. And what about the sides, I bet they could cram a few centuries there too. And perhaps if they were as advanced a civilization as we've been led to believe...I bet if the archeologists kept digging...they'd find built-in adapters to add extensions. Hell, hockey players are far from geniuses but the have invented adapters to add rings to the Stanley Cup. THE STANLEY CUP CONTINUES TO GROW (notices the 5 bottom tiers) AS TO INCLUDE THE PLAYER NAMES OF EACH YEAR'S NHL CHAMPIONS.

My answer to Chicken Little and you too, is the sky IS NOT falling. Relax, have a nice glass of celery soda (CEL-RAY) and enjoy life. The exception being, if you see the angle, create the nonsense widget, put a price tag on it and laugh all the way to the bank.

BOOB THE BOWMAN

It's hard to believe but I have come to associate the humble and graceful helicopter flying over my town with nothing but negativity.
HELICOPTERS ARE BEST USED AS A RICH MAN'S COMMUTER SERVICE OR FOR TOURISM...LIKE THE GRAND CANYON.

I have been power walking for over ten years. I get out a few times each week in different directions for about fifty minutes. During this period, I recall three times that helicopters were over head...unfortunately, none of them turned out well.

Some folks see me as a knucklehead as I chug by but I have far more regulars who wave or give me words of encouragement. Also, friendly car-honkers who I rarely recognize cheer me on as well.

Aside from the exercise, my main goal on these jaunts is to gather my thoughts for blogs etc.,while avoiding pot-holes and other roadside obstacles that lie in wait. I think this aversion to injury prevents me from seeing a lot of the local natural beauty. For the uninitiated, my neighborhood, (Galloway), plucked out of idyllic suburbia, is chock-full-of wildlife. Most of the live wildlife I see are birds. I may not be a birder (bird-watcher) but when I'm not striding around pot-holes, I do appreciate seeing hawks zooming through the forest canopy, circling ospreys or majestic flocks of Canadian geese in formation. I once even saw a pair of turkey-buzzards ripping apart a deer carcass. Also, I get to see many other smaller birds who stray from a nearby sanctuary.

WITH THE ATLANTIC CITY SKYLINE IN THE BACKGROUND, THE EDWIN B. FORSYTHE NATIONAL WILDLIFE REFUGE, THE HOME OF 332 BIRD SPECIES,
IS LOCATED 2 MILES FROM MY HOUSE IN OCEANVILLE.

About nine years ago as I walked down great Creek Road, an eastbound whirlybird cut across the noontime sky. I gave it no thought until about a half hour later, when it re-appeared and sped-off in the opposite direction. Days later I learned that a schoolmate of my son Andrew was air-lifted to the head trauma unit of Jefferson Children's Hospital in Philadelphia. The helmet-less boy survived a head-on quad-cycle collision with a tree. Although this kid leads a mostly normal life now, he lost his hearing in one ear and has poor short-term memory. It should be noted that the sixteen year-old quad driver lost a leg in that accident.

Three years ago, on Reeds Road as I set off for my walk on, I witnessed a "routine" traffic stop on Wrangleboro Road. Before the officer got out, a second police car arrived. The second officer stood poised off to the side, behind the perpetrator's vehicle, as the first policeman approached. Suddenly, the violator shifted into reverse, floored the accelerator and made a sweeping burnt-rubber 270 degree angle U-TURN back onto Wrangleboro. In addition to scaring the crap out of me, he sideswiped a passing car before jumping the curb ala "THE DUKES OF HAZARD." The cops hurried into their car's as the desperado disappeared into the Sunrise sub-division across the street.

I knew there was only one way out of that complex so I gave the chase scene no more thought. On my way home, a chopper was hovering over Sunrise before it started a circular search pattern. Despite the entire Galloway PD plus the helicopter in pursuit, he still got away, (temporarily).

The third incident occurred a week ago (August 31st) which was the first day at Absegami High. "Gami" is half a mile from my house and it's close enough for my "sophomoric" son Andrew to walk there. The school opened extra early this year because a new high school (Cedar Creek) is opening on the other side of the district in 2010. So the administrators want to end this year early so that they maximize their time next summer to iron-out any last minute kinks for Cedar Creek.

At 9:30 that morning, I was power-walking to Jimmie Leeds Road when I first noticed the copter. Four times, it criss-crossed the sky until I headed home. On my street, I crossed paths with my bike riding neighbor BOOB. I remember he was wearing his goofy, signature-statement blue do-rag. As documented in my column several times, BOOB and I have had our differences down through the years so I didn't ask him if he knew anything about the helicopter.
Shortly there after at 10:45, the phone rang. It was a recorded message from the Absegami principal. In it, parents were made aware that the school had been in "lock-down" due to an undisclosed problem outside the school. My son is no stranger to school evacuations...there have been several bomb-threats and weapon searches since entering middle school. So I guessed that some jerky student feeling robbed of the last week of summer trumped-up some situation to get out of school.

When Andrew returned that afternoon, he had no specifics. We were left to guess until the Tuesday morning PRESS OF ATLANTIC CITY came. Dan Good's article on the first page of the region section was entitled, "BICYCLIST WITH BOW AND ARROW DISRUPTS ABSEGAMI'S FIRST DAY." Here are some excerpts: A bicyclist with a bow and arrow rode onto the school's parking lot. Security asked him to leave and the bicyclist yelled, "You can't make me leave, I built this school." Later, a second security guard spotted this man on a bench near the JV baseball field and described him as, 50-60 years old, medium build, long beard, in a tan shirt and blue bandanna.

The guard called for back-up when the cyclist reused to leave. After the call, he fled into a wooded area along the Garden State Parkway on a silver mountain bike. Soon there after, the Galloway police, assisted by Egg Harbor Township police K-9 unit, Richard Stockton College police, the Atlantic County Prosecutor's Office and New Jersey State Police helicopter were called in to search...unsuccessfully for him.

My wife read the article and said, "This nut sounds like BOOB." I said, "I think you're right. I saw him on his bike that morning but without a bow and arrow." Throughout the next day, we debated our civic duty. The main sticking point was, we had no idea of what kind or color his bike was. But we knew first-hand of his odd-ball tendencies and anger management issues. In Thursday's paper there was a follow-up article entitled, "BOW AND ARROW BICYCLIST TURNED HIMSELF IN AFTER READING STORY."

BOOB was in fact the culprit although his account of the story makes him out to be the victim. Nevertheless, he faces disorderly conduct charges but feels, "It's not fair to even hand me a trespassing ticket." IT'S INCOMPREHENSIBLE THAT ANYONE...EVEN A BOOB LIKE BOOB (AFTER ALL, HE'S A PARENT TOO) WOULD BE BOW AND ARROW TARGET PRACTICING AROUND A SCHOOL.

Additionally, I guess BOOB THE BOWMAN would also have to "foot the bill" for mobilizing so many law enforcement agencies while disrupting the school day and scaring many students, parents etc. I hope he pays dearly...but most of all I hope the little light bulb in his equally tiny brain finally lights up and helps him learn a valuable lesson in humanity.

CHECK YOUR VECTOR VICTOR...IT'S..."ZERO HOUR!" VS. "AIRPLANE!"

In the late 80's, a couple visited from New York. I knew the girl but her fiancee was a stranger. When they were together, this fellow, in a sappy way bent over backwards to agree with his future wifey. In private, I expected him to be more vibrant. Instead, he was quietly quite dull. He wasn't a nerd but nevertheless, Mr. Excitement wasn't my kind of guy.

I sternly believe, the gentleman in question has been left in the most unenviable position. He not only was a 34-year old bachelor but he also gave the impression that he had infrequently enjoyed the company of the fairer sex. My position was not taken strictly by the fact that they met through a dating service...rather it was realized by the sense that the weasel was going to jump through flaming hoops to avoid blowing his love-connection at ALL costs. Trust me, shivers ran up my spine when he let himself get overwhelmed by her every whim.

During their stay, the future Mrs. Humdrum proudly mentioned their three mutual hobbies. I honestly feel that while "opposites attract" the long-term success of a relationship is supported mightily by ACTUAL shared interests. So even though I recognized this man as weak, I had my own ulterior motive to perhaps learn a positive lesson from him. Egad, I was wrong.

The first of their three hobbies...while not interesting to me was still something somewhat tolerable. The second was idiotic and the third was so ridiculous...that twenty years later, I can't help but laugh at the visual. ( Please note: they had major marriage problems within the first year of their matrimonial bliss AND I haven't seen them (by design) in ten-plus years AND I don't know or care if they are together now).

This couple's most mainstream hobby (remember they were both 33-34 at the time) was collecting miniature cups and saucers from different states, National Parks etc. I knew I should have kicked them both out when he asked, "How far are we from the Delaware border?"

In keeping with the miniature theme, their second hobby was a natural off-shoot of the cups and saucers...collecting miniaturized household items. Now I truly understand that in this woman, the guy was possibly getting his first taste of sex, romance or female companionship...EVER! But still to get excited in telling me where and how he found a half-inch lawn jockey or describing how he repaired and shellacked their latest printer's type drawer...made me nauseous.

YAWN ! A PRINTER'S TYPE DRAWER WHEN COVERED BY A GLASS OR PLASTIC WINDOW CAN BE HUNG ON A WALL TO DISPLAY A MINIATURE COLLECTION.

Yes, on paper this pitiful man's life was already over. But we haven't even touched on hobby number three. To "unwind" after a long day of searching, flea markets, yard sales, Goodwill Centers and curio shops for a tiny Heinz ketchup bottle, he liked to sit with her and do macrame. That's KNITTING! Geez, it's mind boggling to what length some people will go for "quality" time with their mate.

To be supportive of the couple's eccentricities, we suggested a visit to nearby Smithville. Smithville is a picturesque, outdoor tourist trap with about 100 specialty shops...many of which cater to collectors (oddballs).

I remained a champ for over an hour despite being dragged through more stores whose name's started with "Ye Olde" than you could ever imagine. They bought-up skeins of yarn, a little SMITHVILLE NJ cup and saucer set and dozens of itsy-bitsy items like; pots, pans, a Tabasco bottle, an old-fashion train conductor's hat, New Jersey state flag, frogs, penguins, a waffle iron, the thimble from an antique Monopoly game and so much more.

At the forty minute mark, I experienced my first taste of bile from the on-set of full-blown boredom. To rescue him and get the awful taste out of my mouth I suggested, "Let's go for a beer." He said with wide-eyed enthusiasm, "Wait till later. If the girls don't mind, we can get drinks at lunch. First, let's see what kinds of minis they have in, Ye Olde Coffee Outlet."

Later, with the salvation of eating a meal at least one more quaint store away, I nudged him as we passed, "Ye Olde Sports Memorabilia Outlet." I knew he was a lost cause when he answered, "What could we POSSIBLY want in there?"

While inside Ye Olde Yarn Outlet, I was actually appreciating the subtle color difference between burnt sienna yarn and regular sienna. Suddenly a bolt of lucidity spasmed through my body as the fear of being lured into a less manly lifestyle occurred to me. Scared straight, I snapped out of my funk when Mr. Desperate's lady held up a spool of beige yarn and said, "Hun, do you think we need more ecru?" I felt like the wolf who eats through its own arm to free itself from a bear trap. I disregarded accountability to the women as well as the physical and mental health hazards associated with them and took the direct path to normalcy. I grabbed this poor unfortunate bastard's elbow and lead him out to the bright shining freedom of the great outdoors. Randomly I said, "C'mon, you gotta check this out."

Fate was accidentally on my side. Just when my bum's rush was losing its momentum, he stopped. Not to go back in, but in reverence to the one thing he cherished for himself. To this day, I'll swear I heard holy music as he seemingly levitated and floated diagonally across the mall. When his feet came back to earth, he urged me through the open door of, Ye Olde Video Store Outlet. Inside, he found a treasure trove of vintage posters, Hollywood photos, replica props and obscure VHS movies for sale.

Somehow he only came out with two items; a porcelain, two-foot Charlie Chaplin figurine and a 1957 movie I never heard of. When we were all re-united, he announced to the girls, "Steve never heard of, "ZERO HOUR!" Looking at his statue, I thought of the song Charlie Chaplin wrote called, "SMILE." That's the one with the lyric; Smile though your heart is breaking. Nat King Cole made it a smash hit in the 50's and Michael Jackson once said that it was his favorite song.
Maybe that figurine was a subliminal cry for help. Once you get beyond that stupid grin on his face, Mr. Whipped, with all his personality flaws must have been really dying on the inside.
When Mr. Hardup saw the girl's empty expressions, he went into damage control and added, "This is the film that 'AIRPLANE!' is a parody of."
A SERIOUS DRAMA, "ZERO HOUR!" IS ABOUT A WORLD WAR II FLIER WHO IS DISGRACED BY AN UNAVOIDABLE WAR-TIME ACCIDENT AND IS HAUNTED SO BAD THAT 12 YEARS LATER HE STILL WON'T FLY, EVEN AS A PASSENGER.

When he mentioned Airplane! I understood, (click on the link below for Zero Hour's original theatrical movie trailer).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kN5orElkXdY
I was vaguely familiar with Zero Hour! In it, the pilot and co-pilot are knocked out of commission by eating, tainted fish. I knew I hadn't seen the movie in centuries and despite how hilarious Airplane! was (and still is), I had no interest in investing another unnecessary 90 minutes with this clown by watching his new toy. Maybe he was a nerd after all.
IN ZERO HOUR! NFL HALL-OF-FAMER ELROY "CRAZY-LEGS" HIRSCH (RIGHT) PLAYS THE PILOT. IN AIRPLANE! PETER GRAVES PLAYS THE PARALLEL ROLE.
This past week, I stumbled across "Zero Hour" on TURNER CLASSICS MOVIES (TCM). I bet I haven't seen it in 30 years. A two-two and a half star movie, I thought it was pretty bad and in the middle, fell asleep for thirty minutes. Aside from a lot of silly and dated dialog, the acting was decent and the ending...even though I knew the outcome was exciting.
STERLING HAYDEN AS TRELEAVEN, A NO-NONSENSE CONTROL TOWER LEADER TALKS SHATTERED EX-FIGHTER PILOT (DANA ANDREWS) DOWN.
The real reason I would recommend Zero Hour! is because of the much more famous 1980 spoof movie Airplane! While Airplane! is a take-off of all disaster movies, it concentrated its material from Zero Hour! Usually its best to see the original first. In this case, I think if you see the parody first, then Zero Hour!, the results will be better...because it'll be funny too.
IN AIRPLANE! LLOYD BRIDGES HAS THE STERLING HAYDEN ROLE. IT IS BRIDGES WHO SAYS, "WHAT A WEEK I PICKED TO STOP SNIFFING GLUE." (among other abusive habits)." IT SHOULD BE NOTED THAT IN THE ORIGINAL STERLING HAYDEN DOES IN FACT SAY, "WHAT A WEEK I PICKED TO STOP SMOKING CIGARETTES."

More interesting tidbits; the use of an exclamation point at the end of the title (Airplane!) Was taken from Zero Hour! Airplane's title in Germany was; The Incredible Trip in a Crazy Airplane. At first Peter Graves turned down the role because he thought the script was insulting. In Argentina, the title was translated to; And Where's the Pilot? SURELY YOU KNOW LESLIE'S NIELSEN'S CAREER AS A SERIOUS ACTOR WAS AT A STANDSTILL WHEN AIRPLANE! MADE HIM A COMIC SENSATION...YES, I DID KNOW THAT BUT STOP CALLING ME SHIRLEY !

Another funny bit of trivia in Airplane! was when the doctor says, "We have to find someone who can not only fly this plane, but who didn't have fish for dinner!" What makes that more hilarious is that the line is taken...word-for-word from the ultra-serious original.
IN AIRPLANE! ROBERT HAYS IS THE RELUCTANT PILOT...THAT'S RIGHT, THERE WOULDN'T BE MUCH OF A PLOT IF HE DIDN'T EAT THE LAMB CHOPS.
The laughs in Airplane! are fast and furious...even if a gag bombs, there's always another right behind it. So if you still need an extra push to see it, click on the link below. Its the movie trailer. I guarantee it'll make you laugh and want to see the whole movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcWLbDS56u8
Well, I can't speak for that other couple because every relationship is different. But I think its a good gauge to see how buried you might be...especially if you are considering getting serious with someone new...to at least find out if they think Airplane! is funny. Otherwise you won't get your vector from Victor or clearance from Clarence...do you roger that Roger?

MOST OF ALL...I REMEMBER MAMA

Please don't try to tell me that the 1948, four-star movie, "I REMEMBER MAMA," was overly sentimental or a chick-flick. I have seen it a dozen times and each time, I fall in love with it...all over again. What I appreciate the most is, mama (and to a lesser extent, papa too) provide a loving environment for their children without ever letting on that they are teetering on poverty. Plus, the script is clever enough that the idealism never approaches fantasy.

IRENE DUNNE SHINES AS A TURN-OF-THE-CENTURY MOTHER OF A NORWEGIAN IMMIGRANT FAMILY. RESEMBLING A REAL "OCTO-MOM," SHE JUGGLES AND SOLVES ALL THE PROBLEMS IN HER SAN FRANCISCO HOUSEHOLD AS WELL AS THOSE OF HER ODD-BALL RELATIVES.

In the opposite direction was the 1987 three-star movie, "THROW MOMMA FROM THE TRAIN." It was a dark comedy that featured a dysfunctional family that was highlighted by a hen-pecked son's (Danny DeVito), edgy relationship with his over bearing mother, (Anne Ramsey). When the camel can't handle the last straw, the son decides to have his mother murdered.

NOW THERE'S A NURTURING FACE IF I EVER SAW ONE. TO PREPARE FOR HER ROLE AS MOMMA, THE HIGHLY ACCLAIMED ANNE RAMSEY GARGLED WITH RUSTY RAZOR BLADES.
Although far from ideal, my childhood was somewhere in between the two films...however, let me make this perfectly clear, my mother's demeanor was infinitely closer to Irene Dunne. Still she had her momentary flaws like the time I got lost at Jones Beach. Many of you may recall that "MAD MAGAZINE" did an expose on that event in 1959.
Like any normal four year old, something along the shoreline caught my eye. I drifted away from the pack and got lost in the crowd. Several minutes later I turned inland and couldn't find our home-base. In the mean time, panic set-in when mom realized I was gone.
My mother knew calling dad, (he worked a 60-hour week) with the news that I vanished was out of the question. Despite being frantic, she organized a search-party posse. Along with a couple of my aunts, she enlisted other women...and the Stevie scavenger hunt was on.
I wasn't there to witness just how freaked-out this made my mom but the MAD MAGAZINE article portrayed their woman as saying, "Where's my baby...oh god help me...I'll kill anyone who harms a single hair on his head."
A block away, I soothed my disorientation by befriending a bunch of kids. In no time, I was having a grand ol' time, giggling, digging tunnels and eating CHEEZ-DOODLES. Unfortunately, my idyllic five minutes in limbo was interrupted by one of my aunts. Like landing a trophy marlin, she grabbed me hard by the wrist and lifted me in the air. Luckily she didn't pull my arm out of the socket.
Clutched against her ample bosom, I strained to divert my eyes from the cable-wire-like hairs protruding from the mole on her chin. I was still squirming to get free when she wailed, "You're gonna get it." Auntie brusquely wove a path between the beach blankets. When I saw my mother, she was nearly in tears as she ranted to bewildered strangers, "Help me find my baby."
When mom saw me she hugged me. Then she saw the orange cheez-doodle dust on my mouth and hands, and screeched, "What were you having...a party?" Now I'm not saying that my mom invented PMS...however, its widely accepted that she was one of the early research pioneers. So, just as some guy said, "Lady, DON'T hit him..." Wham! I got a stinging open hand across the face...ah yes, home-spun corporal punishment...remember, in those days, smacking your kid in public was highly acceptable.
That same man...my only hope for salvation...became mute and powerless when he saw the passion of mom's infuriated eyes. With his bravado shrunken, all hope of intervention on my behalf disappeared. I guess, he decided against restraining her when he realized that she was a Leo. Instead, to the appreciative nods of the other moms, my mom stepped-up the carnage. Whatever dangers and/or predators I might have been exposed to in the wild, my mom was worse. She delivered her own ten-fold brand of discipline and clobbered me. In a seemingly never-ending, near-lethal dosage of slaps, screams and threats, it was branded into my psyche, to NEVER wander off again. In my adolescence, the profound nature of that lesson surely stunted my puberty by six months.
Another of mom's peccadilloes became clear to me when I got older. She had a gimmick that kept my sister and I from trying to stay (unnecessarily) home from school. In fact, it worked so well, I frequently went to school when marginally sick, to avoid the torture of cleaning my room, closets, and the basement. Even wintertime holidays like, Lincoln's birthday were unappreciated because the work at home was more tedious than anything at school.
Mom might have had other less than golden moments but luckily there weren't many. That's why I prefer to dwell on her overwhelming goodness.
Two days ago, on August 22nd we celebrated mom's 79th birthday. We took her out to the "OUTBACK STEAKHOUSE" and had a little soiree in her honor. (See last year's blog...that party was at "LENNY'S CLAM BAR.")
CAT-FIGHTS? YOU CAN SEE THOSE ANYWHERE. BUT THE DYKER HEIGHTS (BROOKLYN) OUTBACK OFFERS UNIQUE AMBIANCE...FIVE MINUTES AFTER THIS PICTURE WAS TAKEN, TWO WAITRESSES HAD A KNIFE FIGHT.
During her party mom was a true lady as we roasted her with petty jokes. She was also gracious when we filled the air with compliments. Certainly when you considered how well-adjusted and successful her children turned-out...assuming I'm staying current with my meds, she deserves a lot of credit for her unconditional love, devotion, leadership qualities and patience.
So please join me in wishing her a HAPPY BIRTHDAY and many more.
Hopefully you'll rent, "THROW MOMMA FROM THE TRAIN." I guarantee, you'll come away from the experience with a deeper appreciation of your mom.
Also, "I REMEMBER MAMA," is frequently aired on Turner Classic Movies (TCM). If you're like me, you'll love the characters and the story, but more importantly you'll reflect on the dedication and sacrifice your mom made to improve the quality of your life. That's why I get misty every time I hear the closing line of the movie, "Most of all, I remember mama."

POWER JUDGE IN THE FOURTH AT AQUEDUCT

Towards the end of fourth grade, the assistant principal came into our classroom with a little boy. Most of us guessed that he was the brother of a classmate or a misguided first grader in route to the principal's office. Instead, he was a new student about to be introduced to the class.

In this most awkward of "first-day" moments, every other "newbie" I ever was exposed to was overwhelmed, bashful or scared. But not tiny Fidel Gil (in Spanish, his last name is pronounced "heel"). Belying his size, this kid had tons of charisma to the point of star power. When he spoke to the class, despite his high-pitched voice, he displayed poise and intelligence as he described in refined English, the circumstances that led his family's move to Canarsie from Buenos Aires.

The whole class gravitated to vertically challenged Fidel. We loved his cute little Argentine accent, his adorable ever-happy disposition and infectious personality.

Fidel's charm was supported by a thick mop of curly black hair, chubby jowls and small hands that featured baby-like undeveloped knuckles. He became our class mascot and during recess or after school, Fidel loved being handled. The boys...including myself, liked picking him up, pinching his cheeks or mussing his hair. The girls treated him like a lap dog. They pet him and put bows in his hair. Had he not stopped them, they would have dressed him up like a doll.

The next year Fidel was in my class again. It's unclear why, but he decided to abbreviate his name to Del. I doubt it was to maintain his shortness theme...so maybe he was in solidarity with the area's large Cuban population who hated Castro or wanted to come-off as more Americanized. Either way, our friendship blossomed in September and October. He lived on the other end of the school district but I rode my bike and hung-out with him many times.

When football season got into full swing, it became obvious that Del was disinterested in it. He hated the colder weather outside and because he was foreign, he had no idea of the rules or how to play. At first, he tried but it was frustrating and embarrassing that he couldn't compete. Soon, he expressed a specific desire to NOT get involved. Unfortunately for our friendship, sports was an important part of my life. Therefore the luster of Del's novelty began to wear thin. In the heart of the winter, it got dark early and was too cold to bike to his house. We remained close in school but spent nearly no other time together.

When it warmed up, I found out he didn't want to play baseball either. We drifted apart. In sixth grade, we were in different classes and fell out of touch. In the summer before seventh grade, (1967), his family moved. It would be eleven years later when I bumped into him one last time.

In the mid-70's, a few doors down from the infamous Tip-Top Diner and three blocks from Lundy's, my favorite restaurant in the world, was the Davy Jones Bar. Located in Sheepshead Bay, across the street from the picturesque flotilla of party (fishing) boats on Emmons Avenue, Davy Jones was a popular Brooklyn watering-hole when I was in college. On weekend nights, you could count on the place being so packed that you could barely move.

FOR PICK-UP ARTISTS, THE SECLUDED ROW OF PARTY BOATS WAS A GREAT SPOT TO MAKE-OUT. THAT IS IF THE PRESUMABLY DRUNK GIRL COULD OVERLOOK THE POLLUTED WATER AND STENCH OF DEAD FISH.

Somewhere along the way, the bar changed hands and was re-named Captain Walter's. Among my crowd of stubborns, it was and still is referred to as Davy Jones. Aside from the name, the biggest (only?) change was to bring in live performers during the week. My favorite was an acoustic guitarist named Harry Maddox. We liked Maddox so well, on many occasions we traveled to another bar, Gantry's Tavern near St. John's University to hear him.

Harry closed each gig with his signature song, "THE ROLLING STONES" smash, "SYMPATHY FOR THE DEVIL." It was an especially big crowd-pleaser because he trained his audience to replace the doo-ta-doo chorus by singing out "F*** YOU!" Ah yes, you can't put a price-tag on the sophisticated, high-level of entertainment we Brooklynites demand.

In March 1978, during my Jameson chased by Heineken phase, I sat at the bar on a snowy, raw and windy Thursday night. Harry was between sets so it as fairly quiet when I felt a tap on the shoulder and heard a baritone voice say, "Hey Steve." I turned around and some pudgy guy stood there grinning. I didn't recognize him. I'm usually good with faces and I wasn't drunk but still, I drew a complete blank. Before I could say you must have me confused with somebody else...he said, "It's me Del, Fidel Gil."

After we hugged, he sat down and drank with me. He said, "I moved to Miami in seventh grade. I got a bimmie-job at Hialeah race track and quit school. After I while I decided to become a jockey." He was now my height and heavier than me so I said, "Really?" "Well," he sighed, "I sort of filled-out. When I was seventeen, friggin' puberty came out of nowhere and hit me hard. But I stayed in racing and now I work as a groom at Aqueduct." Later when the booze took effect on him he whispered, "On Saturday, the fix is in! And the smart money is on Power Judge in the fourth. He'll probably go-off at ten-to-one. It's the feature race...you can even watch it live on TV."

THE FLAMINGO FOUNTAIN AT SOUTH FLORIDA'S LANDMARK THOROUGHBRED HORSE RACING VENUE; HIALEAH PARK . THIS ONCE-BEAUTIFUL AND WORLD RENOWN RACETRACK HAS FALLEN INTO RUIN AND HAS NOT HOSTED AN EVENT SINCE 2001.

Early Saturday afternoon, together with my current FACEBOOK friend AK and another long lost buddy, we went into the OFF TRACK BETTING parlor on Rockaway Parkway. Without trying to insult MRDIMES or any other of my horse racing readers, OTB was filthy, smoky and disgusting. In the short time inside, I saw a cockroach vomiting. The only thing that separated OTB from a New York subway station waiting room was that the cloud of intense body odor there was actually worse than the subterranean stink of stale urine. I was so grossed, that to avoid getting the streets dirty, I wiped my feet before leaving.
I COULDN'T FIND AN OTB PICTURE THAT CAME CLOSE TO CAPTURING THE NAUSEATING AMBIANCE AND CHARACTERS THERE IN '78...TO LAS VEGAS' CREDIT, I SAW SIMILAR LOW-LIFES IN SUCH RACE AND SPORTS BOOKS AS: LEROY'S AND CHURCHILL DOWNS...BUT I NEVER FELT THREATENED.

Maybe it has changed in the last 30+ years but that day (the only time in my life I set foot in an OTB), the scarred, tattered and bewildered clientele looked like homeless, retired extras from the "SOPRANO'S." At that point even though I knew a moth was going to fly out of my wallet, I turned away from an eye-balling skid in an eye-patch so he wouldn't be tempted to jump me outside over the pittance I had left.

At the betting window I saw our horse was going off at eight-to-one. I handed over a five and five singles and said, "Power Judge! Ten bucks on the nose in the fourth at Aqueduct." In a similar way AK followed suit and my other friend said the same thing but three of his dollars was loose change.

We drove back to AK's ground floor apartment on Ralph Avenue. Although it was cold, it was the first sunny day in a long time. From the car, we hurriedly navigated through the mine-field of melting slush. AK acknowledged a few of the senior citizens who crammed benches along the walkway to the main entrance. To me, most of them seemed to be hoping that we'd slip on the ice.

EVERYTHING IS RELATIVE. WITH OUR BIG TEN CLAMS RIDING ON POWER JUDGE'S NOSE, WE WERE GIDDY BEFORE THE RACE AS IF OUR LIVES DEPENDED ON THE WINNINGS!

The steam heat in AK's apartment was stifling. He opened the big living room windows and turned on the TV. When our race started, it was like a typical horse racing movie. The famous race announcer Dave Johnson, named every horse and finished by saying, "And Power Judge trails the field." I was getting hit with the stink-eye and verbal flak about my "sure-thing-tip" when Johnson's next update ended with, "And Power Judge is moving up."

It was like a firecracker exploded in his butt because all the other horses looked like they were standing still. When the racers hit the three-quarter pole, our horse was fifth. But the announcer was concentrating his energy on Power Judge's momentum.

When Johnson roared, "Down the stretch we come!" The three of us were yelling at the top of our lungs as Power Judge flew into third place. In the last furlong, he roared into second. A few lengths from the finish it was obvious that he was going to overtake the favorite. For an instant, the two magnificent steeds ran neck-and-neck. AK broke the tension by screaming, "I can't believe this is happening." As Power Judge surged ahead, the leader horse mis-stepped into his path.  Power Judge was knocked him off stride. After the bump, that stupid interferring horse maintained his speed and cruised to victory.

The horse that had been third nipped us at the wire for second place. AK was the loudest as all three of us repeatedly wailed, "No, no!" With our basketball mentality, we called for a foul. Then our wish came true! In his distinctive voice Dave Johnson interrupted the festivities, "Please hold all para-mutual tickets, there's an inquiry on the board!" At the track, an impropriety like that leads to an investigation.

In anticipation of our victory by technicality, our hearts raced faster than the ponies for the next five minutes. When Johnson finally made the announcement that the winner had been disqualified, we screamed our heads off again. Although Power Judge was indeed impeded from winning, he still finished THIRD not second. After the results were changed, Power Judge "placed" which means he was bumped-up to second place...not first! We bet him to win...so we still lost.

Reality set-in. We started whining and cursed our bad luck. Suddenly there was a knock on the door. It was an old man from the benches outside. He leaned in and tried to look past AK and said, "Everything here okay? Should we call the cops?" AK was deflated and laughed, "Yeah, yeah Jimmy, we're okay. Please, no cops." He shut the door, went to the window and opened the shade. Outside there were about thirty old folks standing, staring and pointing at AK's apartment.

SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT BUT DEL'S INSIDE INFORMATION WAS ACCURATE! AND WE STILL LOST...GEEZ, I COULD'VE USED AN EXTRA EIGHTY BUCKS BACK THEN !

Yes even though it didn't work out, little Del Gil gave me a big memory and it has lasted a life time.

PARTY FLUFFERS INC., LLC.

I threw a party for FRANKIERIO last week. Frank is an original member of my poker buddies and has lived in Las Vegas for the last 13 years. We visited him this past June (see my "VACATION - 2009" blog). The night we got in, he was kind enough to drop everything and show us around. The following morning, he picked us up at our hotel in his new 1977 AMC Pacer and gave us the thirteen-hour, royal tourist treatment. Nice touch, his car had a giant fake Band-Aid with the letters "O-U-C-H" covering one of the dents. DESPITE THE 102 DEGREE VEGAS TEMPERATURES, FRANK'S PACER HAD MANUAL WINDOWS WHICH EASILY OVER SHADOWED ITS LACK OF AIR-CONDITIONING.

To honor the ever-popular Frank during his vacation in South Jersey, we brought together the old core of poker players along with other mutual friends. I think the main fear when mixing people who don't normally socialize...is that the lack of chemistry that might cause splinter groups instead of a single cohesive unit.

FRANK'S "GOING-AWAY" MEMORIAL POKER GAME, (SEPTEMBER '96). THAT WAS NO ORDINARY RUBBER CHICKEN GAG GIFT...IT HAD WARM, UNDULATING BODY CAVITIES. ERGO, HE GOT YEARS OF PRACTICAL USE OUT OF IT.

To combat factions and ultimately a dull party, I fantasized about inventing a business that could subliminally manipulate the attendees...and either directly or indirectly force them to have a good time...together. The idea I came up with would be called, "PARTY FLUFFERS."

First, a successful party fluffer must operate in a covert manner. Guests should not feel like they are being coerced into fun. So a fluffer would casually initiate apt and/or funny conversation. Of course an individual might come-off like a buffoon in this role so I envision better flexibility by using a team of two. And to further mask their true goal...I feel an inter-racial couple would be perfect. Remember the comedy-drama film from 1971, "THE SKIN GAME." Set in the resurrection-period south, the genius of the plot was...nobody suspected an inter-racial con-man team, (James Garner and Lou Gossett Jr).

For Frank's party I had two such folks in mind to be my fluffers. They are real people but I doubt any of my readers know them both.

For best results, the host (me) would program them early in the festivities to prep or "fluff-up" the party-goers.

On a broader level, if unwanted people stray into sacred parts of the house...like your bedroom that are "out-of-bounds," you can send your "people" in. To get the undesirables out, the fluffers can stand over the bed and proclaim to the horny couple that they are "next." If that doesn't shoo them away, the fluffers could have a carefully scripted, obnoxious argument to root out the hormonally explosive duo. Trust me, its always a sticky matter to get in the way of lovers doing their thing. However with this system, if the timing is right, you can prevent the splatter of precious bodily fluids on your new comforter. That's why when you hire PARTY FLUFFERS; the crap never stains the host's hands.

Another easy way for the host to save face involves discouraging a guest from over-indulging on shrimp cocktail, alcohol, crack-cocaine, etc. Just send the fluffers in and have them sing (poorly) the blues, scat or urban poetry. When done in the professional PARTY FLUFFER way, you might score the added bonus of having that slob or substance abuser leave the premises of their own free will.

To me, no party is complete without annoying your despicable neighbors. You know the ones who keep you from doing your yard work because they smoke those disgusting, smelly, cheap, sweet cigars. Or try to intimidate your visitors who park within 15 feet of their vaunted sprinkler heads. Or pile their lawn trash like a great wall separating your properties. Or scare your kid by threatening to kill your dog...even if she only thinks about peeing on his lawn. Or the BOOB who causes an effrontery to your eardrums and tender sensitivities by blaring the whiniest, twangiest and worst Country-Western music...EVER! Then I say, fight back. Once your big event is proceeding well inside, send your PARTY FLUFFER associates outside.

Payback is a bitch...once outside, a loud, droning non-stop dissertation concerning the female fluffer's connections, accomplishments, health issues and possessions will surely keep your unsavories next-door awake, uneasy and teetering on calling 9-1-1.

Luckily Frankierio's party was a big success and I saved big bucks by not renting the imaginary PARTY FLUFFERS...because if I'm going to run such an outfit, its going to be real expensive.

THE CORE OF ORIGINAL POKER BUDDIES AUGUST 6, 2009. DUE TO "WITNESS PROTECTION PROGRAM" DIFFICULTIES, MIKE123, TOOK THE ABOVE PICTURE RATHER THAN GIVE AWAY HIS WHEREABOUTS.

During his party, Frank's only regret came from admitting that he lost the rubber chicken we gave him in 1996, to a one-legged ballroom dance instructor from his new Vegas poker buddies.

I HAD NO IDEA ABOUT HIM LOSING THE RUBBER CHICKEN...BUT AT LEAST I GAVE HIM A "CHUBBY" THAT HE'LL DEFINITELY HAVE FOREVER.

I wish Frank well. And I hope he remembers that wherever he goes and whatever he does, he'll always have a friend in me.

He drove his Pacer off into the western sunset last night. I would have felt better if he had a spare tire, those donuts aren't designed for the long haul. If he gets in trouble, at least he'll have the warm memories of that old rubber chicken, my party and the chubby I gave him...to carry him through the 3000 miles home.

WHEN ART IMITATES ART

An aspect of the 1970 Mel Brooks movie, "THE TWELVE CHAIRS," includes a beggar going through the village crying out, "Epilepsy, epilepsy!" Later we find out that he lived among a sub-culture of beggars who preferred this method of work to actually working. In private, these "bums" tried to concoct new ways to promote them self as the most destitute...hence more worthy of sympathy...in the form of alms, (donations).

I grew up in New York City and always wondered if the blind guys in the subway were faking. From that I developed an everyone's got their hand in your pocket mentality. When I moved to Las Vegas in 1979, I saw it was a way of life and that creative mooching was rampant. One of the big reasons was the hobo's shantytown hidden in an enormous train yard behind the Union Plaza Casino.

Hobos rode freight trains to Las Vegas. It was a perfect spot because Vegas combined year-round warm weather with give-aways and inexpensive food. More importantly there was a steady stream of gamblers to sponge-off, who were free and easy with their chump change.

The value of the land skyrocketed after I left town (1984) and urban renewal was set in motion. The vast majority of the transients vanished after the shantytown was eliminated and the train yard was developed. Also, the slum-like streets near the casino center, (Fremont Street), were razed and replaced with real estate offices, lawyers, banks and other new businesses to support their needs.

When I vacationed in Las Vegas last month, I found these changes stunning. The crowning touch of these downtown improvements is called the FREMONT STREET EXPERIENCE.

Located along the first five westernmost blocks of Fremont Street, an awning...more specifically a 90-foot high barrel vault canopy, was completed on December 14, 1995. It provides shade to a pedestrian mall below (Fremont Street) which is also the main pipeline to the Glitter Gulch casinos, (Golden Nugget, Horseshoe, Fremont etc).

BY DAY, FREMONT STREET (looking west towards Main Street) BUSTLES WITH ACTIVITY. KIOSKS SELL ANYTHING YOU CAN IMAGINE. THE ILLUSION OF BEING INDOORS IS COMPLETED BY THE STRONG AIR-CONDITIONING ESCAPING INTO THE STREET FROM EVERY DOORWAY.

In addition to traditional vendors, the Fremont Street Experience had; a balloon-animal clown, a spieler selling time shares, a magician, strolling mariachi band and an artist. We found this artist particularly interesting. Crowds encircled him as he painted on an easel that was attached to a lazy-Susan atop a regular table. This format made it possible for even a little kid to watch.

He used spray paint mixed with oils on a "canvas" that was a solid, light-weight, 24 x 18-inch plastic sheet. The masterpiece we saw him create featured a babbling brook in front of a split log fence, framed by forests of fir trees. In the background, the star-studded night sky and bright moon reflected on the scene below.

The painter spun the canvas and sprayed, dabbed and added definition with a set of knife-like tools. Six other similarly styled finished products surrounded his work station. The price was $39.00 or 2 for $65.00. The sign on the partially filled tip-jar read: "STRUGGLING ARTIST FUND."

In New York, this demonstration would be a pick-pocket's paradise. At one point I checked my wallet and surveyed the congregation. I had all my stuff and nobody looked suspicious.

My mind wandered to my dad. He was an artist and would have appreciated this five minute show. Hell, even Van Gogh would have turned over in his grave for a better look at this guy in action.

We loved the one he was working on and were tempted to buy it. Only we didn't want to schlep it around and we knew our hands were already full to get back on the plane.

In a final crescendo filled with theatrics, the artist spun and dabbed and etched in such a feverish pace that our heads spun as much as the lazy-Susan. When he stopped, like magic, the landscape was suddenly finished. You'd think he was Salvador Dali when the gallery erupted in applause and whistling.

AT NIGHT, BIGGER CROWDS COME TO SEE THE EXCITING LASER LIGHT SHOW SET TO MUSIC, PROJECTED ONTO THE BOTTOM OF THE CANOPY. THERE ARE ALSO TWO SOUND-STAGES THAT FEATURE ORGANIZED (usually free) CONCERTS. THE BIG NEW YEAR'S EVE PARTY THERE HAS BECOME A VEGAS TRADITION.

We stayed four nights downtown and each morning I did my power-walk. You get a false sense of comfort under the canopy because when you get out into the sunshine (at 7AM it was always at least 90 degrees), you want to die. The heat is staggering and with no shade, there's no place to hide.

THE UNBEARABLE HEAT OF PRE-CANOPY FREMONT STREET, (1983). BACK THEN, IN THE STYLE OF "AMERICAN GRAFFITI," IT WAS A BIG DEAL FOR HIGH SCHOOL DRIVERS TO CRUISE "GLITTER GULCH" ON FRIDAY AND SATURDAY NIGHT.

While I was walking east along Charleston Boulevard, I discovered that the slums are still there. Despite the urban renewal adjacent to the hub of downtown, away from the action, homeless people slept in the shade of tattered shrubs, countless drunks wandered around and other poor folks whose Vegas dreams never materialized watched me chug by.

Some desperate people become low-level casino hustlers. They hope for simple freebies like, liquor, cigarettes, food or abandoned slot machine vouchers.

Being a 30-year casino employee, I am sensitive to higher level hustlers. These hucksters/grifters/scam artists etc., look to "earn" a free gambling stake by manipulating the weak or less savvy gamblers. Most use hard luck stories but others sell get-rich systems, are prostitutes, loan sharks etc. Luckily I didn't encounter any of that.

What I did encounter was surprising. Away from the casinos, in mundane places like; stores, parking lots and gas stations, a new form of pan-handling was going on. I guess with the economy in the toilet...unemployment in Las Vegas is at an all-time high...many clean-cut people make up the hordes of a new generation beggars. Very sad.

Later, we went back into the big strip hotels. On our way to the Wynn Casino there was a broad alley between Harrah's and the Flamingo. Similar to the downtown pedestrian mall, this area was crammed with booths selling anything you could imagine. Therefore it was a shock to see another "struggling artist" with the EXACT same set-up, EXACT same prices and EXACT same paintings.

I'm guessing there was some sort of template going on because the painting were NOT similar, they were the same! I'm glad I didn't buy one and I felt dirty for dragging my father's memory into association with that crap. And forget about poor Van Gogh's ear, chances are, he would have cut his head off after seeing that.